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If you went around a high school and asked every student, "What's been the defining moment in your life?", most of them would half-heartedly think about it for a second, then say "I don't know". I believe that this is because, when you're young, your life is pretty simple.
You go to school, you play a sport maybe, hang out with your friends, everything you do is pretty minor. Nothing that you do on a day to day basis is really life changing, and things that maybe only happen once, still don't seem like they matter.
But that's where I think society has gone wrong. (Enjoy this kids)
I think that every moment of lives makes us who we are. Every second we're alive, we're changing, hopefully for the better, but sometimes for the worse.
Today, I'm a different person than I was three years ago, because a lot has happened in those three years.
I've screwed up the most important event of my life (it's a swimming thing, and by all means, ask me about it), I've seen my best friend walk into my math class dressed as a banana, I've completely pancaked onto to frozen asphalt wearing nothing but a swim suit, I've choked on lemonade from laughing to hard, I've watched people that I knew as fourteen year old's graduate college, I've been happy, I've been sad, and I've had a lot of regrets. But those regrets, the ones that I think about when I'm trying to fall asleep, are what make me who I am.
Everything that has happened to me has made me who I am today. And everything that has happened to you since the day you were born has made you who you are today, too.
So do I regret parts of my life? Absolutely. Do I wish they wouldn't have happened? Not necessarily.
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